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Insight Out

Seeing beyond what is visible

The fighter in disguise

“First I will write the next chapter of my thesis, then I’ll make the phone call with a new client, while I finish the dishes and in the meantime I’ll make a plan for the packing and moving into the new house. After lunch I will have the Skype meeting while doing laundry. If I’m […]

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Dependency and connection

“When you feel energy flowing towards something, it actually is feeling love for it. The moment you give in to that love, you connect your own destiny with that something. Once your destiny is connected to it, you depend on it, so you are dependent.” This was the answer of one of my clients to […]

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Coaching the coach

As a coach I of course deeply believe that everyone should have a coach. This includes all the coaches themselves. So, I have had several coaches over the years who supported me to achieve my goals and become a better coach. My current coach has supported me in many different processes from relationship issues to […]

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“Life shrinks and expands in proportion to one’s courage.” — Anaïs Nin

On the home page of my website ( it says: “Life shrinks and expands in proportion to one’s courage.” — Anaïs Nin When I chose this quote to summarise somehow my vision for Insight Out, my coaching company, I didn’t see the full scope of it. Yet, ever since it has been guidance in my […]

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Life is a candy store
And I want to taste it all!

I watched a TED talk on addictions last week. The guy spoke about research that was done on rats. A rat was put in a cage and given 2 water bottles. One bottle had normal water, the other one had cocaine water. Pretty soon the rat started to enjoy the drug and eventually overdosed himself. […]

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I choose life

After a rare disease, I became visually impaired when I was 5 years old. I lost my eye sight slowly over the years until practically blind at the age of 14. I could still see a bit, but not much. The doctors had hope for me. They could do a cornea transplant when my body […]

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